Liespotting: Detecting Deception in Everyday Life

“No one can lie to you without your approval.”

Pamela Meyer

This episode is ROBUST. Seriously, I’ve don’t think I’ve ever spent so long researching to put an episode together, and even with all of the various areas covered in this episode, it only scratches the surface of the science of detecting lies and...

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Are You Listening to Your Intuition?

“There is a voice that doesn’t use words. Listen.” -Rumi

This has been one of my favourite quotes for several years, and has spoken to me on an even deeper level after realizing how much I had been ignoring my intuition for years.#The9YearAffair

Our bodies are talking to us constantly, and we experience emotions DIRECTLY in the...

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The Healing Quality of Laughter

Every time I’m asked about the story of the infidelity that was uncovered in my previous relationship, I start to laugh.

It’s genuine laughter, too. The whole situation went down in such an utterly insane fashion that it’s actually comical to me at this point. It certainly wasn’t amusing in the least for a very long time,...

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How to Deal with the Gossip and the Fear of Judgement

infidelity Sep 04, 2019

Opening up the door to discuss the infidelity in my relationship was a risk that I was willing to take, but I knew it would simultaneously open me up to a whole new world of judgement, criticism and gossip that I had previously been insulated from.

Let’s just call a spade a spade: it’s a “juicy” story. #The9YearAffair


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Forgiveness Isn’t Found, It’s Earned: Doing the Inner Work

“To err is human. To forgive, divine.”

-Alexander Pope


When I posed some upcoming episode ideas on Instagram stories, forgiveness was one of the ones that drew the most attention. And I can understand why, because it’s an incredibly complicated and complex issue for so many of us.

Not only that, but it takes a great...

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Infidelity + Taking the High Road

I was told months ago by someone that that coming forward about infidelity in my relationship would make me look like a victim trying to elicit sympathy.

If you’ve been following the #RoomToGrowPodcast for any length of time, you know how strongly I feel about victim mindset (check out episode 24 in particular). So let’s chat for a...

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Affair Aftermath & Holding Space for a Friend in Crisis with Christina Montalvo

**If you haven’t yet listened to episode #117 The 9 Year Affair: Lessons in Infidelity, I strongly recommend checking it out first as a prerequisite for this episode**

I’m a little bit nervous to release this episode, because I was a *little* bit more candid than I intended to be

Christina Montalvo and I have teamed up for our...

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Vulnerability As A Commodity: Where’s the Line?

I’m noticing a trend in the online space where vulnerability is the new “it” factor and at times, seems like it’s being treated as a commodity to be traded in exchange for likes, download numbers and increased publicity.

Listen, vulnerability is a beautiful thing. It brings us closer together, creates deeper connections...

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Cutting Off the Breadcrumbs of Hope with Megan Bruneau

I’ve been following the incredible Megan Bruneau on Instagram for some time now, and am absolutely delighted to introduce you to her on the podcast today!

Quoted by Deepak Chopra as the “Millennials’ therapist,” Megan’s no-bullshit, relatable voice has garnered over 30m views and landed appearances on The T.D....

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Listening to Your Intuition & Gut Instinct: Stop Ignoring Your Body


I’ve gotten a lot of requests for this episode after openly discussing the signs my body was screaming at me that something wasn’t right in my long term relationship. When my former partner’s 9 years of infidelity was revealed, everything suddenly made so much more sense.

Even with my background in psychology and...

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